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A Personal Reflection on Community and Values


I'm experiencing intense emotions these past couple of days. After taking a brief break from social media and news, returning today has been overwhelming. I need to be absolutely clear about something: I'm deeply disheartened by discovering how many people in my wellness community have enthusiastically supported someone convicted of serious crimes and who openly threatens violence.


As a teacher focused on healing and peace, I'm especially troubled by the fear I see in my diverse community. My transgender friends and Black friends have expressed genuine terror about their safety. What disturbs me most are the violent rhetoric about using military force against fellow Americans, calls for firing squads against political opponents, and the naming of specific individuals for retribution.


Despite various justifications I've heard, I cannot reconcile these actions with the community values of healing and compassion that guide my practice. When someone tells us who they are through their words and actions, we must listen. I'm simply acknowledging what has been openly stated and its impact on our community's sense of safety and wellbeing.


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I want to be clear about who I am and who I work with. As stated on my website's home and about pages, all are welcome here. I don't care who you love - I care that you love. I won't claim colorblindness or say I don't see race, because I absolutely do. While I want those from marginalized communities to feel safe with me, I recognize that trust must be earned, not simply declared by stating "I'm a safe person."


Let me be absolutely clear: I am not a safe space for bigotry, racism, misogyny, homophobia, or transphobia. I do not provide a sanctuary for hate. If you're reading this and thinking "I guess I can't work with her," then you're right - you can't.



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